When Bloggers Go Their Separate Ways...
Who gets their mutual links? My former blogroller has severed contact, for our own good, and I want to honor that person's wishes. For right now, I think completely avoiding that individual is necessary. (I'll be too tempted to read his blog.)
I'm actually feeling like it was the right decision to be made in what was a bad situation. I would go so far as to say I'm in a cautiously good mood. Monday--was horrible. I bawled. It hurts to be cut out of someone's on-line life. Who da thunk? Tuesday--depressed. (Duh) But today, I am actually ok. I'll be fine. Really.
posted by Valkyrie @ 5:52 PM
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7 Comments:
I hope so R. I'll keep my fingers crossed!
I know I will. I am a strong woman, who is beginning to refuse to be limited by her neurosises.
Interesting.
Internet split-ups and Rogue all in one blog visit.
I too hope things work out for you.
I’d bet they will.
Rock on!
The first time I "fell for someone" on the web, I fought it for months... after all, how could an e-friend become a e-lover where the feelings I had were so intense and deep and real???
Yet it did happen. That time and many more times. I found that loving others is good for me... that sharing my life with another... sharing what I could not share in real life somehow made me more complete...
Many of those relationships drifted, and disolved. A few of those relationships parted in less than amicable terms. And 2 of those relationships was a "go away and stay away" on her part... one recently.
It hurt. There's no other way to describe it. I would change it, but I can't. I move on... hoping to find others who will be wiser choices.
I can emphathize (spelling?) with your broken heart. I offer an e-hug of consolation (if I knew you better, I'd offer a hug of CUMsolation).
aDICKt
Be Strong.You'll get through it.
I've been reading your blog for a few months now and have noticed you are changing for the better. Baby steps. You'll be fine.
Manuel: I'll be ok. How could you doubt it? :P
Rex Venom: Well, I like Rogue and R is the first letter of my real name...so it just seemed natural. It was just the dissolution of a friendship--not a cyber relationship.
aDICKt: The problem with internet friendships is the lack of true physical interaction. You only see what the other person wants you to see. I don't think I'll ever pursue a relationship where I haven't met the person first.
Pink Lady: You know, I've learned a lot about myself recently. I am strong, though I'm sad that our friendship had to end this way.
Glorious: Oooh. A mystery reader! Thanks for your comments! I'm trying to change for the better.
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